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  1. Ok…..let’s start at the beginning for the absolute beginner……….GIVING YOUR FIRST BLOWJOB:
    Try and do it with someone you know well and trust like a boyfriend. You WILL be nervous and probably scared of making a mess of it………..I definetly was. Try not to think to much about what you’ve read or been told by friends……….just get him into your mouth as soon as you can and do whatever feels natural……you just need to open up your account and get started…… get your first one ‘under your belt’ so to speak!!……… Try to hold him with your hand to start with (no hands is a skill that needs aquiring) and just start going up and down, up and down with your mouth…..sucking him gently at first, gradually increasing until you’re both comfortable…….don’t try to overdo it and don’t try to take him too deep into your mouth for now (another skill that needs aquiring)…….although you won’t feel anything, your back teeth can be very painful for him so beware……… Get a good steady rhythm going and try to listen to him……….if he groans alot you’re doing something right so keep doing it !!! …………..Eventually he will want to cum and with little or no experience the signs can be hard to read………first you have to decide if you want him to cum in your mouth or not……….if you do then just keep going………if you don’t then pull off him early and finish him off gently with your hand. If you have any doubts at all about having him ejaculate in your mouth then stick with the latter for now………in can be quite a shock the first time you get cum in your mouth so be 100% sure you want it there!!…………My advice would be to leave this until you have a little more experience and can read the signs men show when they are about to cum………above all though……enjoy it, enjoy him enjoying it and have fun…..that’s what’s important!!

    Please feel free to add any of your own comments and/or advice 🙂

    • I’m well past that stage now………..but good advice though…………keep it simple to start with………..And if you haven’t ever tasted a man’s cum before, try and have a little sneaky taste of it to see if you’re ok with it……..maybe you got a bit on your hand or finger so just have a little lick of it………if you think it’s ok, then maybe take it a stage further next time……….like licking some of it off his stomach………but don’t go the whole nine yards yet……….take your time and let him do it in your mouth only when you’re absolutely sure it’s what you want to do…………and remember different men can taste completely different………so be warned!!

      • It’s been a while since I last tasted any but I remember being ok with it. I think I’ll be ok with the basics with my new guy, but I really want to leave an impression in his mind. I don’t want to appear dirty to him, yet at the same time I do……….any advice?

  2. TIP FOR GIRLS WITH LONG HAIR:
    If you have long hair like me you are probably in the habbit of putting it into a ponytail before giving head……..with a boyfriend or hubby it’s just a practical thing :(………but on a new guy 🙂 you can use it to your advantage to turn him on more 🙂 :)………let’s say you got his pants off and are kneeling between his legs looking at his cock……..maybe just touch him lightly but don’t put him in your mouth yet……..kneel back and sit on your heels…….flick your hair and stretch your arms behind your head……..now, with the scrunchy you have around your wrist (which you sneakily put there earlier in preparation 😉 ) put your hair into a ponytail………..still sitting on your heels…… use both your arms to now remove your top and reveal your breasts to him (I would have lost the bra earlier if I was wearing one…….preparation 😉 )……..now lean forward and perform !…………it’s subtle and he my not give too much concious thought to it……..but it will register somewhere in the back of his mind that you mean business………..keep one eye on his cock while you do it and I bet you it twitches at least once or twice……..always a good sign he’s hardening up and getting more exited 🙂

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